Dress H&M
Shirt Sainsbury's
Necklace Primark
Why is it when you feel completely rotten your hair always goes the way you wish it would any other day?! This week my 3 year relationship came to an unexpected end. To put it lightly, I'm utterly devastated and completely heart broken. Its hard to write this as he was such a big influence and part of the blog and the best thing to have ever happened in my life, and I'm really scared to do it without him, but I will. I don't know what to say really, but I just feel like I should tell you guys since he was a part of the blog and my life.
Its going to be very strange being a single blogger, I honestly only know of a few, and while it doesn't really make a difference to the actual content its still a big life change that I can talk about. This is the first time I will be fully single for 7 years, between relationships I was only single for a few months so not really a single life. This time however I fully intend to stay single for as long as I possibly can. Basically I want him, I want "The One" to come into my life. I'm sick of waiting. So any boys who are not the one can just leave me alone, if Joseph Gordon Levitt wants to say Hi I'd maybe consider it! (Who wouldn't?)
Anyways, while at the moment I am still in this first stage of shock and sadness, I know I will be OK. I have a lot of good in my life and I will get over him and I will move on. I'm a huge believer in not dwelling over things you can't change, so I won't, it is what it is, it will hurt for a while but I will laugh again and I will definitely love again.
... if not, I like cats so, I can just have cats instead of a man.
Sweet Dreams
Paula .. x
You look gorgeous, love the necklace and your hair looks fab! x
ReplyDeletereally sad to hear that, i know how horrible it feels when someone who was such a big part of your life wont be in it anymore, chin up hunny you'll get over it in time ps. your fringe is lovely! xx
ReplyDeleteI said it on Twitter a few minutes ago but muchos love!
ReplyDeleteI've been single two and a half years almost. And there isn't that many single bloggers, is there? I know very few single people in general. Welcome to the club ;)
Really sorry to hear this Paula, hope you're okay! Coming from a single blogger (and one who has been single for a while!!), I can honestly say I think you're doing the right thing in taking some time out for yourself and waiting for the right person to come along. You absolutely will love again, which I know doesn't necessarily make it any easier right now, but you will be just fine in time :) Excellent choice in Joseph Gordon Levitt though!! ;)
ReplyDeleteLovely outfit, by the way!
Lynsey xxx
http://allsortsandanecdotes.blogspot.co.uk
JGL is the ultimate babe ;) xx
Deletegorgeous - I want your hair!!!
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so sorry to hear that :(
ReplyDeletei am sure in time you will find great happiness as you deserve it :)
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Aww Paula, hope you are OK! :( Time is the greatest healer and while it may not seem it now, every day is going to get easier. <3
ReplyDeleteAwwh Paula! I'm so sorry to hear this! Breakups are so so painful, I've had a couple of really bad ones myself!
ReplyDeleteLet me know if you ever need a chat, I'm all ears!
Marie x
Your hair looks hott and I adore that necklace xx
ReplyDeleteI love your hait and the necklace!
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Awww girlshape, you'll be okay. Take some time for yourself, we all know you're a total wee bad ass and you will find someone that is just as glorious as you are. xoxox
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear your news. Your outfit is lovely though
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Sorry to hear about your breakup Paula :( but once you're feeling better you'll realise being single is okay! I've been single since I was about 14 and it's not so bad. I don't think I'd be the person I am if I hadn't had a chance to grow on my own. I hope you're not hurting for too long <3
ReplyDeleteps. if you get a hold of Joseph Gordon Levitt can we share?
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Hahaha sorry Rebekah if I got a hold of JGL he'd be locked in the house 24/7 so he never leaves ... x
DeleteSo sorry to hear about your break-up Paula, but you're right, your hair DOES look so good!
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Really sorry to hear that... Just remember though it may have been him that encourages you to start the blog but you have done amazingly... The posts are full of such good content, and your gaining followers all the time. I've only been a follower since the twitter argument (I think it was New Year's Eve) and I've loved your posts.
ReplyDeleteDon't stop for him though... Meeting all the Scottish bloggers will definitely help.
Maybe you should have a new goal to focus your time on. YouTube??
keep smiling
Elliehttp://girllingreeen.blogspot.co.uk/
I am really hoping to get in to haul videos this year and hopfully it will be much easier once I get my new tablet :D x
Deleteyou look really gorgeous paula, i love your hair too much! sorry to hear about your breakup. it does suck but i'm glad you're quite upbeat about the future :) i became a single blogger back in october after four years of being with someone. it sometimes makes me feel bad when people post loads of pics with their boyfriends but cats are better than men anyways ;) xx
ReplyDeleteYou are simply stunning :)
ReplyDeleteIts been a year since my own 3 year relationship came to an end and it stil hurts, my suggestion would be to surround yourself with good friends and nothing but happiness (or, shoes!)
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Aww no! Stay strong Hun! It feels werid being Si hole there are so many bloggers that are in a relationship but stay strong and focus on yourself your beUtiful you will find someone amazing! Xx
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear you trying to get over a break up. Its like grieving! You have an amazing attitude about the whole thong though. Your a lovely person and a complete babe. When The One comes along he'll be so lucky to have you! X
ReplyDeleteI've recently gone through the same thing (almost 3yrs together) and I jst started my blog as a "fresh start" kinda thing. As hard as it is you just have to think positively and see your blog and the fact you're carrying on with it as a credit to yourself :) I believe good things fall apart so better things can fall together!
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